Obviously, my joyous feeling is more on the great news about having a baby and becoming a father. But it does not let me forget the raya celebration which will come in 2 days.
This year, will be the 1st raya I celebrate as a husband. There's not much of planning to be made. Alhamdulillah, her hometown in Senawang makes it easier for us to decide on the 'balik kg'. We'll be going back to senawang 2 days before the celebration and will shoot off to JB on the raya eves. We didn't shop much for raya. Only a new shirt and a baju melayu for me and couple of baju kurung for her. It's very simple.
As usual, duit raya for the kids has already been prepared. Will be extra this year as the family has expanded. Raya is all about sharing. Hopefully, this raya it's gonna be a 1Raya for everyone!
Selamat Hari Raya!
Friday, September 18, 2009
i'm gonna be a father!
I am excited, overwhelmed and nervous at the same time after knowing that Sarah is pregnant. whatttt??? yes, she is pregnant and Alhamdulillah, it's the rahmat from Allah for us in ramadhan. The best gift so far.
Still remember that around this time of the year, we were engaged and it's almost a year that we were blessed with another surprise. Alhamdulillah.
Can't wait to be in JB and share the news with the family.....
Still remember that around this time of the year, we were engaged and it's almost a year that we were blessed with another surprise. Alhamdulillah.
Can't wait to be in JB and share the news with the family.....
Hari Raya 2009
Nazim & Sarah
would like to wish you
Selamat Hari Raya & Maaf Zahir Batin.
Wishing you a healthy and safe raya with your loves one.
16th September 09
"Ko ni kenapa ? " tanya bos aku, bila dia tengok aku dok tersengih cam kerang busuk. Time tu, kitaorang tengah ada discussion, bila tetiba ada sms masuk kat phone aku....
"hehehhehehe....nah!" aku tunjuk sms tuh kat boss aku.
"Waaaaaaaaah...congratulations!!!"...
"Eh, kita sambung jap gi ek. Nak call mem dulu"...
Nervous yet excited at the same time...!!!
"hehehhehehe....nah!" aku tunjuk sms tuh kat boss aku.
"Waaaaaaaaah...congratulations!!!"...
"Eh, kita sambung jap gi ek. Nak call mem dulu"...
Nervous yet excited at the same time...!!!
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Trust
Trust. A short yet a noble word. Simple yet loaded with meanings. Some people only takes about 5 minutes to have trust with others. While some take years. People said trust is something that you have to earn. While some, it's more like a gift. To bestowed a trust upon you.
Trust is often taken as a foundation. It is usually seen as a basic building block. The firsto stone to be laid, before the construction begins. The supporting pillar to support the roof. Thus, trust is always be the first thing to grasp on or to cling on when a relationship is concern.
So what is trust? for me trust is about believing and about having a good faith. Trust is about not being judgemental. Trust is when u don't have any bad thinking about the subject of trust and trust is confiding to the subject of trust.
Trust can be broken. Or breach of trust. Most of the times it is because of legitimate reasons and yet there are cases based on illogical reason. And that's what worrying me.
Trust is often taken as a foundation. It is usually seen as a basic building block. The firsto stone to be laid, before the construction begins. The supporting pillar to support the roof. Thus, trust is always be the first thing to grasp on or to cling on when a relationship is concern.
So what is trust? for me trust is about believing and about having a good faith. Trust is about not being judgemental. Trust is when u don't have any bad thinking about the subject of trust and trust is confiding to the subject of trust.
Trust can be broken. Or breach of trust. Most of the times it is because of legitimate reasons and yet there are cases based on illogical reason. And that's what worrying me.
Tuesday, September 01, 2009
It has been 3 months!
It has been 3 months since the wedding. We are currently staying in a cozy apartment in Damansara. 3 months and yet we are still adapting to each other. New things almost every day. It's not easy but we always (i guess ler) meet half way.We have our ups and downs like any newly wed couple would have. We argue and we talk.
The first 2 months was easy. She's very enthusiast with her new title as a 'wife'. She wakes up early in the morning before me to prepare the breakfast, she will sleep late night to iron my clothes and she even bake brownies for me. She'll commented on what shirt i should put on etc.
I bought her an oven because she said she wants to bake. I bought her two pairs of crocs 'coz i want her to feel comfortable when walking, I bought her a dress, so that she'll have plenty of new clothes to wear.
sayang,
They said, a women can make wonder. If she's given a food, she'll made a meal out of it. If she's given a house, she'll make a house and if she's given a sperm, she'll give you a baby.
Hopefully, you are one of those women.
The first 2 months was easy. She's very enthusiast with her new title as a 'wife'. She wakes up early in the morning before me to prepare the breakfast, she will sleep late night to iron my clothes and she even bake brownies for me. She'll commented on what shirt i should put on etc.
I bought her an oven because she said she wants to bake. I bought her two pairs of crocs 'coz i want her to feel comfortable when walking, I bought her a dress, so that she'll have plenty of new clothes to wear.
sayang,
They said, a women can make wonder. If she's given a food, she'll made a meal out of it. If she's given a house, she'll make a house and if she's given a sperm, she'll give you a baby.
Hopefully, you are one of those women.
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Branding a new me!
It has been 2 weeks after i was solemnized to my beloved wife and that means it has been 2 weeks I am being a husband.
The nikah ceremony was held at her hometown in Senawang on the 6th June. It was a small afairs which only closed relatives and friends were invited. The ceremony was conducted by the local kadi and her eldest brother "Abang" or Muhazlim sealed the deal. With one breath, I accepted the "lafaz". Alhamdulillah. It's the beginning of a new me!
Now I have a new duty that cometh with it as a husband to my wife and in laws to her relatives. "Abang" said to me : Ambikler beban aku and jaga dia bebaik. It was a beban in deed.
I am setting the course now. A new course to me and for us. I am branding a new me!
Sunday, May 24, 2009
About a boy and a girl
Then one day, the boy with whatever love he has left found the girl sitting under the tree, crying.
"Why are you crying little girl?" the boy ask..
The girl kept crying, sobbing not even wanting to lift up her face burried in her hands.
"Come with me then, coz i shall take that tears from your your eyes." The boy offered the girl his love, whatvere left out of it. Coz somehow he knows that the girl really deserves it. Now, not that the boys "knows" it, he believes it that the girl "owns" it!
He clutches her hand, make her to stand and continue with the journey.
"Why are you crying little girl?" the boy ask..
The girl kept crying, sobbing not even wanting to lift up her face burried in her hands.
"Come with me then, coz i shall take that tears from your your eyes." The boy offered the girl his love, whatvere left out of it. Coz somehow he knows that the girl really deserves it. Now, not that the boys "knows" it, he believes it that the girl "owns" it!
He clutches her hand, make her to stand and continue with the journey.
about a girl...
There was a little girl who sit down under a tree. From her face, it shows what trouble she has been. In her fragile and petite body, She whimpers. How could such a small body like hers can endure such pain?
Friday, May 22, 2009
About a boy...
Once upon a time, there was a boy who is very joyful and have lots of love. According to him, he has a redundance of love, in which he is willing to share with others. For him, love is limitless and it knows no one. It does not choose anyone. It is boundless and since love has chosen him and resided in him, it is his duty to feel the love. And true enough every girls and boys has fallen in love with him. His kindness touched everyone. He spread the love to anyone. To everyone. Regardless...coz for him, as long he has the amount of love in him, he will please to share it with others.
And when he gave out the love, he really meant it. Of course, some get more and some might get less. Some for a longer period and some is just for a moment. But it, the intensity of the love that he shared is the same...coz he knows, giving too much love can be tiring.
As he grow older, he still shared his love to anyone he meet along the way. But sadly to say, he has lost his touch. Perhaps, the many loves that he used to have is running out. Perhaps, the wrinkle on his face and hands and legs are showing, makes love to hide deeper in him. Or perhaps, because he has became mature by life, makes people start to stay away from him.
But one thing that he knows of right now, he have left only one love in his heart. That one love is meant for someone and he contemplates, whether is it enough?
And when he gave out the love, he really meant it. Of course, some get more and some might get less. Some for a longer period and some is just for a moment. But it, the intensity of the love that he shared is the same...coz he knows, giving too much love can be tiring.
As he grow older, he still shared his love to anyone he meet along the way. But sadly to say, he has lost his touch. Perhaps, the many loves that he used to have is running out. Perhaps, the wrinkle on his face and hands and legs are showing, makes love to hide deeper in him. Or perhaps, because he has became mature by life, makes people start to stay away from him.
But one thing that he knows of right now, he have left only one love in his heart. That one love is meant for someone and he contemplates, whether is it enough?
Monday, March 16, 2009
running an event!
I am used to organised events. From product launch, dinner, exhibition etc. Others who have acknowledged of my skill (including my boss), will said that I am a meticulous in coordinating the event and that's why I've been chosen to lead most of the events.
Now, handling peoples' event is pretty much forward and easy. U got a team members, brief them on what u need and organise them. Scrutinised their work and look good infront of others.
But when it come to my own event, i.e : wedding, I am stumped! I am not used of letting people runs the show. Not trusting them and afraid that it will not turn out to be like i want.
The team will be from my greatest critics. Mom and sisters. They are the backbone for the wedding preparation. I had a fit when I found out that our house is lack in space!(I told u so..mom!). I hate it when my sis kept asking me when's the date.(duhhh!). I despise my brothers for not saying anything....arggghhhhh.But after all they are my flesh and blood!
So...I will my wash my hands clean for this event. I will try to act cool, if things does not goes as plan (or wish!). I will not scream if I can't get to sit on the dais that I wanted. I won't blame them if the colour of the theme is not according to the plan. All I'm gonna do is, to lay back, smile and enjoy my wedding!(and of course fork out all the money that I have to make it work)
Now, handling peoples' event is pretty much forward and easy. U got a team members, brief them on what u need and organise them. Scrutinised their work and look good infront of others.
But when it come to my own event, i.e : wedding, I am stumped! I am not used of letting people runs the show. Not trusting them and afraid that it will not turn out to be like i want.
The team will be from my greatest critics. Mom and sisters. They are the backbone for the wedding preparation. I had a fit when I found out that our house is lack in space!(I told u so..mom!). I hate it when my sis kept asking me when's the date.(duhhh!). I despise my brothers for not saying anything....arggghhhhh.But after all they are my flesh and blood!
So...I will my wash my hands clean for this event. I will try to act cool, if things does not goes as plan (or wish!). I will not scream if I can't get to sit on the dais that I wanted. I won't blame them if the colour of the theme is not according to the plan. All I'm gonna do is, to lay back, smile and enjoy my wedding!(and of course fork out all the money that I have to make it work)
